Do you have memories of all nighters and cramming for finals
in college or grad school? I know that for most of us the real goal in school
wasn’t necessarily for knowledge or practical life experience but for getting a
grade that would take us to the next level. The challenge was that at some
point in life I was supposed to have learned all of this ‘stuff’ because it
does actually matter or does it?
I believe one of the most amazing gifts we can give to the
up and coming generation, my little grandson Hudson, is to be living role
models for being life long learners. Yes, I would actually want to continue
learning in life even after the grades are no longer important! The difficulty
today is that there are too many short cuts because of high tech where learning
is considered a thing of the past. Why actually read a book or an article when
I can ask Siri or Andy a question and get a quick response? It always shocks me
when I’m around someone who isn’t capable of adding, subtracting or multiplying
in their heads but need their fingers or a calculator.
I will be the first to admit that the academic type of
learning isn’t necessarily for everyone but at some point in life you and I
must take ownership of our learning process in life and do something! There
isn’t any short cut for learning or a pill you can ingest that will help you
better understand or master something that’s new. I was recently at my father
in-law’s 90th birthday celebration. What’s amazing about Paul is that
even in his old age he has pursued his dreams in life regardless of the
naysayers or his wife screaming at him, ‘You can’t do that!’ as he jumped out
of an airplane that was 10,000 feet above the coastline as he parachuted to the
ground.
Yes, I want to be able to have goals and accomplishments
that keep going until the day I breath my last breath on this earth. Yet, it
would be so easy and comfortable to coast through life on my learning and
accomplishments from yesterday or from a friend who is the genius type. What
has to happen for me to not be content with living in the past and to help me
want to keep growing and learning? I know for me it has been the incredible
life examples of my wife, who is always pushing me to see life in the moment or
my niece who will graduate from high school soon at the top of her class on her
way to UCLA or my crazy brothers who never quit and saw their dreams become a
life reality.
Looking back I did care about doing well on tests and
figuring out ways to study and learn pre-fossil era before the Mac had come
into existence. Yet, the ultimate goal of learning must be to live a better
life, have my eyes opened to the beauty of life and to influence the world
around me so others also may open their eyes to understand what’s really
important in life. I know that it’s so
easy to live vicariously through your kids, spouse or friends and miss out on
life. Don’t become a spectator who watches others live out their lives to the
max as you sit on the sidelines.
Today dive into life and learn something new and different!
I know for me the last couple of weeks of focused on understanding how
phosphate and nitrate levels in a saltwater bio tank influence the growth of
longhaired green algae. It actually takes some learning on my part and taking
some specific action to see my bio tank become crystal clear again. I made some
big mistakes that cost me a couple of fish but in the learn run I see the
direct correlation between my inaction and impact it has on my life and the
lives of those around me, even my little nemos!
Don’t lose sight on the real reason for learning!
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