Last night in the middle of our tutoring time with about 40
kids, teens and various tutors the fire alarm went off. I was in the middle of
doing something and wasn’t close to the alarm that had been pulled. I knew it
would be a few seconds before a few adult volunteers most likely would be
chasing a teen that was the likely suspect. Fortunately the staff at the
community center are good friends and share the same passion for seeing teens
that are going down the wrong path get on track.
Unfortunately before this incident I had a conversation with
a couple of teens that had been accused of stealing $40 from one of my interns
that wasn’t the best. I told them they couldn’t participate in anything until
one of them fessed up and either admitted to doing it or was bold enough to say
who had done it. The sad fact for these guys is that their present lives are
one where they continue to do foolish things really believing that they won’t
get caught or even worse that it doesn’t matter.
I had lunch with a good friend who is going through a
transition in life where he stepped down from doing something he is passionate
about for the last 18 years. We had a great time at one of those retro type
downtown places. I realized as we were sharing stories, I had the summer from
‘hell’, that he was actually the one that was hurting and had the alarm going
off. I felt for him but saw great hope that he was discovering the next phase
in life whereas my young friends were going down a path that would end up with
them serving some type of detention or jail time in the near future.
There are life alarms going off all over the place
regardless of where I turn. I’m around too many people and teens that really
believe that everything that happens to them is always someone else’s fault and
clearly not their responsibility to do anything to change the circumstances. I
know that the reflection many will have today on 9-11 will bring many emotions
of sadness, anger and outrage for how anyone can cause so much destruction of
life in a such a purposeful fashion. It rings that alarm that mankind has
significant issues that can’t be ignored otherwise history will repeat itself.
Much like the ongoing battle with militant groups throughout
the world make it impossible for there to be a sense of peace of overarching
hope that ‘things’ are going to get better. I know that it is so easy to rail
on those in power and authority, i.e. our President, without understanding that
the alarms that are going off around us should cause everyone to take a stand
against evil and do something in a positive fashion to see life improve,
especially for the little person that is hurt most by the oppression from those
with the power.
The other day I had an annoying alarm go off in my mind as I
attempted to start my truck. The battery was dead regardless of what I could
hope for or do L I
jump started my truck with the little van and make the trek to may favorite
auto parts dealer. The good news for me is that I could get someone else to get
the battery out and replace it with another that will last about the same 2
years regardless of how much I spend.
Yes there are times in life where alarms go off around us
which shouldn’t surprise anyone. It’s what makes life fascinating and exciting.
The opportunity is whether we stand up, run away or pretend we don’t hear the
annoying sound. I know that my life won’t improve if I don’t take action, which
for me meant going to a chiropractor for a week. I couldn’t pretend any longer
that the searing pain in my lower back was imaginary. Today my back alarm is
off but I appreciate the fact that pain is a reminder that I must care for
myself.
My passion is to live in such a fashion that those around me
can see that there is hope regardless of how circumstances might seem. Yes, the
words of Sir Winston echo out, “Never, Never, Never, Never, Never GIVE UP!”
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